a quick hand-wave

[taimatsu]

I'd be really chuffed if those of my readers who identify as polyamorous would post here or email me; then I'll do complex things with friends groups and explain. Ta. :)

Comments

[fluffymormegil.livejournal.com]

me (well, mono/poly switch strictly, but close enough :)

[daneel-olivaw.livejournal.com]

Me. Whassup?

*hugs*

[nevecat.livejournal.com]

*laughs*

Uh, 'it varies'? Think you understand how Simon & I work, anyways ;)

[the-alchemist.livejournal.com]

Possibly potentially poly... I'll leave it up to you to work out what that means and whether I 'count' (I won't be offended if I don't!)

[winterthing.livejournal.com]

Non-monogamous but not fully polyamorous. There are complicated boundaries that I shall explain one day.

[winterthing.livejournal.com]

But would be interested in hearing what you had to say, and can give good advice. Have been in open/poly relationships before and know a bit about it, btw.

[bitty.livejournal.com]

lazy poly :)

[halibut.livejournal.com]

Yup yup. Here'd be one.

[azekeil.livejournal.com]

*waves hand*

[ixwin.livejournal.com]

Not poly, but interested.

[ixwin.livejournal.com]

...and like the_alchemist, if that means you'd rather leave me out, that's absolutely fine.

[crag-du.livejournal.com]

*waves a paw*

[ex-lark-asc.livejournal.com]

j0 :-)

[cryx]

erm.. i don't identify as poly, but i think maybe i could be. does that count? I'm interested in hearing what you have to say though... :)

[inquis.livejournal.com]

(Obviously) I identify as poly, but somehow I doubt you'd want my opinion...

[taimatsu]

*hug* not for unpleasant reasons, purely for avoiding-spreading-wibblage-further-than-necessary reasons, but yeah :) I'll email you at some point :)

[inquis.livejournal.com]

OK, that would be good :o)

[wednesday]

I'm happy to be wibbled towards even if I, personally, am all like horribly evil and supporting the hegemony and all that crap. ^~

[hfnuala.livejournal.com]

Not poly, but not bothered by poly stuff either (not that I'm asking to be put into this particular group, but if you need to create a 'won't preach at me' group in the future...)

[emperor]

AOL

[werenerd.livejournal.com]

Poly, yup, that's me.

[36.livejournal.com]

I ID, rather inactively I'll admit but...

[purrthecat.livejournal.com]

Yep, I'm poly.

[serena-lesley.livejournal.com]

Me! (Obviously..) lol

[lnr]

I dunno if I really identify as poly, it's more something I'm doing than something I am, but that probably counts so count me in.

[meirion.livejournal.com]

i id as poly, but given i can barely manage to keep one relationship going ...

-m-

[stronae.livejournal.com]

I'm poly-capable, (with poly experience) but I'm in no relationships at the moment. Also been responding to posts in polyamory from time to time....

*Waves*

[davefish.livejournal.com]

You coming out tonight by the way?

Re: *Waves*

[taimatsu]

tempted, and have fab outfit, but am very tired (given most recent custom-friends post, no prizes) and have a bit of a date to chat online with someone at about midnight, so possibly not...

[jojomojo.livejournal.com]

Me :)

[pure-simon.livejournal.com]

yeah, kindof, maybe.....umm..........what caroline said!

Besides......curious! :)

Si

[chrisvenus]

Insert whatever answer involves me being in all the interesting friends groups that hear things. :) Just put me in all your friends groups or I'll just come round and bully the information out of you. :)

[ewx.livejournal.com]

ACK

[damerell.livejournal.com]

Clearly since I am not you must not tell me anything or I will be mortally offended and probably expire with sheer horror.

[taimatsu]

Muppet. You're welcome. I just wanted to get an idea of who might be able to give me advice from the font line as it were. I take it from the high degree of sarcasm there that you do, in fsct, want in? :)

[damerell.livejournal.com]

It looks that way, yes, and if I do expire from apoplexy on learning that you are dating Megumi Ogata you will have revenge for the sarcasm.

[baratron.livejournal.com]

Me. But you knew that.

[cerulean67.livejournal.com]

*wave* Me three

[juliet]

*waves*

[rosydreama.livejournal.com]

I kind of do, but I'm interested more than actually in a poly relationship (try no relationship) but I'm not on your friends list anyway so I'm just blathering insanely for no patricular purpose *grin*

[j4.livejournal.com]

Hmmm. I suspect you may not really want my advice because it'll probably all be too tied up in Past Issues. :-( On the other hand, if you want to count me in, I'd be happy to try to help. Though I suspect I may be too late now given the speed at which livejournal seems to move!

(Oh, and don't get me started on the whole "identifying as poly" debate. Men are from Dewey Decimal, women are from Bliss. Quack, becoming moo later.)

[taimatsu]

It was rather tied up in Past Issues, but LJ moves very fast, and the problem is, in some sense, fixed. If you'd like to see both the immnse wibble and the resolution, comment again and I'll pop you on, but I'll warn you there is a two-paragraph exposition of the Past Issues to skim, which you might feel odd about.

[j4.livejournal.com]

Well, I'm glad the problem's fixed, but I must confess I'm kind of curious now! I don't mind seeing the exposition of Past Issues (it either won't tell me anything I don't already know, or it'll tell me things I should have known, in which case I'll be glad to see it) but it's up to you really.

Have some *hugs* anyway, though.