I've jusrt been told...

Thursday, 22 June 2006 05:31 pm
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So who knew? Comments screened.

Date: Thursday, 22 June 2006 04:47 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] sea-of-flame.livejournal.com
Whuh?

And are you OK? (Yes, I read between lines, so to explain: It's rare for you to typo...this reads all hiccuppy to me!)

Date: Thursday, 22 June 2006 04:48 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] emperor
Knew what? From the icon and your reaction, I'm guessing that this is R B-S having a new SO? If so, then I didn't know that.

*hugs*

Date: Thursday, 22 June 2006 05:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hardwired.livejournal.com
5 yard penalty for uber crypticness.

:)

Jason

Date: Thursday, 22 June 2006 05:46 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] cryx
um.. this doesn't sound good. What ever it is, I hope you are ok?

Date: Thursday, 22 June 2006 06:01 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] lovingboth
In case you didn't know - commenting to an unscreened comment unscreens it.

I can currently see two comments from other people and your replies to them.

Date: Friday, 23 June 2006 11:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mirabehn.livejournal.com
I knew.

I've been reluctant to say anything here because I am very far from believing that anyone has done anything wrong, and am not about to "admit to being shitty" when I haven't been. Quite honestly the tone of this post and the one after has a hint of bullying in it, and I don't respond well to that.

I kept a confidence confidential. I would not respect myself had I done anything differently. I imagine that goes for everyone, and while your likely anger at me (and others who knew) is understandable, it is also unjust.

I am also somewhat exercised by your apparent view that people would be vocally condemning Robert and Elise and Helen were it not for some kind of social cowardice. Apart from the fact that this is an insulting assumption to all concerned, it did make me wonder whether perhaps I am only not commenting here due to my own social cowardice. So, I gave in.

I feel no outrage or anger at all as to what has happened. Far from it. Some considerable sorrow as to the pain it causes you, but no outrage.

You yourself have a boyfriend now, or someone close to being that. Did you tell Robert about that immediately? I doubt it.

Nobody has betrayed you. Nobody has behaved badly. Nobody has done anything wrong. As far as I can see, that's the end of the story.

I can quite understand that you're feeling shocked and hurt, and that some anger is inevitable, even though it is not called for. I send you many, many loving hugs, and much sympathy, and I hope you can heal from this quickly.

I love you lots, Lucy. Whether you let this business cause a rupture between us is now up to you.

Please take care, stay safe. You're in my thoughts.

You may leave this screened or unscreen it as you choose.

Date: Friday, 23 June 2006 12:25 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mirabehn.livejournal.com
You cannot 'love me lots'.

I beg to differ. I can, and I do. Very much.

I think you are making some false assumptions to the detriment of all three people concerned, but especially Helen. It troubles me, but it's not my responsibility to change your mind, even if I could.

Best to close this discussion now, because I'm angry too. I am sorry that you see me as sanctimonious. It's certainly a novel accusation for me, I'll give it that.

Date: Friday, 23 June 2006 02:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mirabehn.livejournal.com
I stand by what I said, but I am truly sorry if I have made things worse for you. *hugs*

Date: Friday, 23 June 2006 03:53 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mirabehn.livejournal.com
*hugs*

And, thank you. I can barely stop crying myself, so mostly just *more hugs*

I am still not capable of responding appropriately to attempts to support the other side of the story, though, so if we can avoid that for a little while, it'd be good

*nods*

Right you are. No probs.

I wish it didn't hurt so much for you. Sending peaceful vibes your way.

Date: Friday, 23 June 2006 04:23 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mirabehn.livejournal.com
Oh Elly, if I can stop crying (and I have), surely you can. :/

Just about managing it now. Glad you've stopped too. :-)

Hopefully I'll see you at some point without too many social complications. Let me know if you want to arrange meeting up.

That would be very nice indeed. *smiles*

About that new songbook that you have - I can't remember from which singer...?

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