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Friday, 26 March 2004 06:58 pmthe point is not 'I lost my job' but that I lost my job *now* after my boss told me I wouldn't lose it till the end of next week. i have been pretty thoroughly screwed over in various ways. I am damn well pursuing a grievance procedure although it will get me nowhere because boss's boss will support her.
robert is away for the weekend at a gaming event and i cannot get hold of him. I am all by myself and at some point I am going to snap.
robert is away for the weekend at a gaming event and i cannot get hold of him. I am all by myself and at some point I am going to snap.
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:12 pm (UTC)You could come to Reading tommorow? Know you arent really into Camstuff right now, but getting out and seeing people may help.
Steve
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:16 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:17 pm (UTC)Needless to say, if I can be of any use, just let me know...
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:22 pm (UTC)ultimate employer is probably the personnel department of the unoversity of reading.
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:36 pm (UTC)So very, very sorry to hear this.
*big, warm, tight HUG* and another *HUG* with more *HUGS*
Shit. Do pursue the grievance procedure. Sounds like you've been used abominably. Any clue about the further politics behind it you might use?
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 07:48 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 08:11 pm (UTC)Definitely go through with the grievance procedure. At least it'll make sure that they think about the way they've treated you, and don't pass it on to anyone else. Good luck.
*hugs*
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 09:03 pm (UTC)Something very similar happened to me. Extended probation (immediate boss happy with my work, next boss up very unreasonable). Eventually told my services would not be permanently required. At which point they downgraded the job and took on a friend of the hostile one.
I couldn't pursue a grievance because I was still on probation. I was, at that time, a Unison member.
I know what a blow this was to my confidence. It took me a long time to pull myself out of that particular hole. Especially as none of them was prepared to write me a reference.
Hang on in there and remember it is not you. Don't let the bastards grind you down. You are a competent person, it's those who can't recognise that who have a serious problem. Take advice. Pursue grievance procedures if you want. But I do know, again from personal experience, how stressful these can be.
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Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 10:12 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 10:15 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Friday, 26 March 2004 10:48 pm (UTC)I would call, but your LJ says you're trying to go to bed now - so sleep well, and I really hope you feel better soon. Try and get out and see people if pos. Twil be good for you.
Lots of hugs as well.
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Date: Saturday, 27 March 2004 12:11 am (UTC)Nick and I are away for the weekend in Hitchin, or I'd invite you to come to ours for at least some of the time until Robert gets back. Bum. I can't wish our plans were different as we'll be seeing my parents and Liz and Matt and it will be lovely, but I wish we were going to be here for you as well.
Take care, and let us know if there's anything we can do.
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Date: Saturday, 27 March 2004 01:33 am (UTC)no subject
Date: Saturday, 27 March 2004 09:15 am (UTC)no subject
Date: Saturday, 27 March 2004 12:16 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: Monday, 12 April 2004 06:11 pm (UTC)http://www.acas.org.uk/publications/pdf/CP01.pdf
This document is basically a bit like the Highway Code for employers -- you aren't legally obliged to follow it, but if you don't almost no court will find in your favour. It sounds very much to me as though you have good grounds for claiming unfair dismissal. Incidentally, going through grievance procedures first is definitely good, but I'd give this a really, really close read.
If they didn't inform you in writing of what they intended to do, then I think you will find that they have broken the law.