My marriage rant

Right, well, I thought I would write something sensible for once. This is hopefully going to be my long-awaited marriage rant. This is not connected to recent events, it's simply here because I've been meaning to get this stuff down for ages and I keep not doing it. Let's hope I don't get distracted.

Disclaimers: Any references to partners, uses of the word 'we', etc, are non-specific and should not be applied to anyone in particular :) I seem to be using 'sex' and 'gender' badly as well, and I apologise to any readers for whom the distinctness of those terms is particularly important. My meaning should be fairly clear.
( Anyway, so, marriage. )

Hmm.

Better not wear 'Liberate Lucy's Lechery' t-shirt to BSL class.

update: On second thoughts, perhaps the 'bad kitty' t-shirt isn't much better. Oh well. No time to change now.

Nickname required

Right, well, I need a nickname for a roleplay character. Let me explain.

I registered the character (a Ventrue ghoul for Steve's group concept) as 'Lisette Montague' way before I'd even started considering statting her up. That, then, is her official name.

Sadly, it doesn't suit the projected character at all. 'Lisette Montague' doesn't suit a punky, bolshy, probably queer geekette with a tendency to wear fake-fur skirts and anime t-shirts, along with really weird hairstyles and big boots. Essential concept is 'computer geek',

Basically, she needs a net-handle. I am totally lacking in ideas. 'Liz' doesn't work. 'Monty', while pleasantly gender-twisting, sounds too old-fashioned. It needs to be pronounceable. It needs to sound like it's plausibly a name, not 'the_wild_chyk' or something.

Anyone got any thoughts?