see, that's one of the things that gets to me about it - when one is already in a relationship, scattering rose petals over the bed and cooking heart-shaped puddings as an occasional special way to show how much the other person/people mean(s) to you should be done whenever and wherever it's likely to be appreciated, not limited to or prescribed by one single day out of the whole damn year ( see also: my love-hate relationships with "the festive season" and birthdays ) - if somebody wants to show me how much they care for me, i want them to do it for that reason and for that reason alone, not because of some quasi-arbitrary commercialised annual event !


p.s. it being a school night, didn't you want us to tell you off if not in bed by half-ten ? <looks stern>