I agree with the core feminist ideal, this is part of my personal egalitarian stance. I don't think that makes me a feminist. If I've said that I don't identify as such, I don't feel that it is up to anyone else to say "you also happen to hold the basic ideals of feminisism, and thus, are a feminisist as well" or state in any other way that I am a feminist really.

It's not a great deal to ask of people. Please don't tell me what I think.